Rita's Blog

Thank you for reading my blog, I hope you find comfort, joy, wisdom, and reasons to laugh as you read my musings. Divorce does not have to be the end; instead it can be the beginning of something great. Read on and discover how I figured out my place in my new life post divorce. I also have some amazing tips and ideas that you might want to consider as you take your new journey as a single person.


Love,

Rita

My Manifesto

Welcome back to my blog! It’s been a long time since I’ve written my thoughts here, and a TON has happened. What has happened you ask? So much! I sold ...
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YOUR LIFE IS A JOURNEY SO REMEMBER THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS WASTED TIME. – TIP #10

How many times have you contemplated your life and the decisions you have made and had regrets? Misgivings about your choice in a mate, regrets about which school you chose ...
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IT’S TIME TO RE-BUILD YOUR SELF-ESTEEM – TIP #9

There is no question about it, if you have been through a divorce, your self-esteem will take a huge hit below the belt. You ex-spouse may have been hard on ...
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DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF WHEN YOUR EX IS CONCERNED – TIP #8

Yesterday’s tip was kind of heavy, so let’s keep it on the lighter side today.  Are you ready? Here goes. Pick your battles! You obviously have disagreements, life style differences, ...
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DON’T LET OTHER PEOPLE’S PERSONAL OPINIONS INFLUENCE YOU EMOTIONALLY – Tip #7

“Wow! Your kids go to Spain for two months every summer WITHOUT YOU?!?!” “I could NEVER let my child be away from me for that long!” “I would DIE if ...
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CURING THE LONELINESS BLUES TIP #6

When I first went through my divorce and for a few years after, I suffered from loneliness…severe loneliness. My entire family was 2000 miles away, except for my kids and ...
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THE EXTRAORDINARY POWER OF YOUR MIND #5

Our minds are like magic! Whatever you tell it becomes reality! Don’t believe me…think back in your life when you told yourself that you excelled at something. I bet you ...
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GRATITUDE…ONE OF THE KEYS TO HAPPINESS AND FULFILLMENT TIP #4

The first few years after my divorce, I was focused on all the things that I didn’t have. I didn’t have a husband anymore, I didn’t have intimacy, I didn’t ...
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YOUR KIDS ARE NOT YOUR HOBBY TIP #3

I didn’t have a hobby for a long time. When I was young, I was raised in a very religious household so most of my free time was spent going ...
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